3. I agree with Angelou when she says that talking about bad
things, such as bad dreams, gives them too much power. Talking about negative
things fills our mind with bad thoughts, and in turn can cause us to be
depressed or just give us a negative outlook on life. When you are feeding into
negative energy like that, it does not matter if you are the happiest person on
earth you will start to develop negative thoughts. Personally, when I feed in to
drama or if I focus on nightmares too long, it starts to take a toll on my
everyday life. I start to become afraid of sleeping, and I stress all the time
because of the drama. In the end, I think it is just a better idea to avoid negative
thoughts, and focus on all the good things in life! J
5. How Angelou decided to stop talking for five years, I will
never know. I am a talker to an extreme. Your everyday chatty-Kathy. I
recognize that I talk too much sometimes, especially when my ADHD acts up. I
enjoy learning and talking about what I learn or talking about new experiences.
If I spent more time listening and less time talking I am sure I would learn
how to communicate better and altogether more efficiently. If I spoke more, I might
be able to stand up for what I believe in more often, although it really isn’t a
problem now. I would not be able to give up talking for five years because I
like to have debates and discussions over many things. I tell many stories, so
it would also be hard to give up that too. In the end, I think I could benefit
from talking less but not from not talking at all.
7. In my life I would say I have a really fuzzy memory. My
noggin is not to reliable when it comes to remembering stories or events from
the past. I think it is better to be able to recall everything, instead of
nothing, because at least you could learn from events that are awful instead of
not learning from them and having to go through them again and again. The
easiest things for me to remember are things I have done in the past year, but
even those can get kind of fuzzy. It is nearly impossible to remember many
things from my childhood. I remember the happy things better and more often
than I remember bad, although I would say they are almost equally remembered. Almost.
8. When Angelou said, “There is a world of difference
between truth and fact.” I believe it is a completely correct statement. I am
taking college statistics, so I know it is incredibly easy to manipulate data
or facts to make people believe something other than the truth. I was taught at
a young age that letting people believe a lie without actually telling them one
is still considered lying. So I believe it is completely possible to know all
the facts and still have no idea as to what the truth really is.
Such insightful answers...your last one about misleading people, through numbers or silence, is especially wise. I like that you are a Chatty Kathy, and I agree that negative thoughts can pervade our whole lives if we let them. But we often love to talk more about our problems than we do our blessings, don't we?
ReplyDeleteVery true. I find myself catching myself sometimes being negative or pessimistic, and that is when i try to take a step back and think about all the things i am grateful for.
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